How to Survive the Horrible Roomate

Moving out of the house is a big step for the average college student.  It is a step towards independence, freedom and happiness.  The entire process of moving from the safety of the parent’s house and in to a crappy dorm or an old apartment is one of the most exciting parts of a student’s college career.  However, if you are stuck with a terrible roommate, moving out might be the most horrific experiences a student can have in college.  If you are in an uncomfortable, tense and stressful living situation, follow these rules.

Communicate!

Above all, never close the line of communication.  Once the roommates start ignoring each other, the situation can only become worse.  When the talking stops, the resentment begins which is far worse than anything else.  If your roommate borrows somethings without asking you, tell them immediately that they need to ask you first.  It is important to be respectful in your tone of voice, but don’t let things slide because it will only become more of a problem later.

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Plan ahead!

It is important to talk to your roommate beforehand about things such as bills and groceries.  Designate who will pay for each bill and establish boundaries about borrowing money before you move in.  Talk to your roommate about food, such as if you will grocery shop together and split the amount or if you will each buy food separately.  Although these might not seem like a big deal, money can be a cause for big fights and disagreements.

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Clean Up!

You may be the most organized person in the world, or you might be the messiest, either way it is important to keep the common area clean.  Roommates can keep their rooms as messy as they please, but be respectful about the main rooms and the kitchen.  Messy roommates can cause a lot of drama that could be easily avoided if they just picked up after themselves.

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Above all, roommates need to maintain a high level of respect for each other if the living situation is to work out.  So before you move in to your new place, keep in mind how important communication, planning, and cleanliness is in a roommate relationship.